When the Ending Has Not Been Written Yet

Only Luke is with me. Get Mark and bring him with you, because he is helpful to me in my ministry. 2 Timothy 4:11 (New International Version)

If one is not familiar with Scripture, they might read this verse and miss the dynamics of what Paul is saying. He is requesting Mark to be brought to him and he is referring to him as being helpful to him. Paul and Mark’s history is what makes this so amazing!

Mark (John Mark) had accompanied Paul on a missionary journey but had deserted him part way through. Later on when Barnabas wanted John Mark to join them for another missionary journey, Paul refused to allow that to happen. The contention was so sharp between them that they actually parted company. Respect was gone. Trust was gone. Friendship and fellowship were gone. Today’s verse tells us the end of the story but much had to transpire before that end could be written.

John Mark had some maturing and growing to do. Paul had some forgiveness and second chances to extend. It all took time and God graciously worked in both their hearts and lives. He reunited them in ministry and heart.

This account came to mind as I once again found myself thinking back to a severed relationship. I am not at the end of the story yet. I don’t see what the outcome looks like. I have no guarantee reconciliation of any kind will transpire in this life. While Paul and John Mark were brought back together we are not told of a reconciliation between Barnabas and Paul. My story could have either ending. Hope mingles with heartache and uncertainty.

What do I do in the meantime while I am waiting to see the outcome? Trust God to work in both our hearts and lives. Keep focused on what He has me doing at the present. Allow Him to change and mature me in my faith. Keep exchanging the sadness for gratitude for all God did through this person. Acknowledge the truth that my life’s story is bigger than the chapter that entailed the relationship I now miss. Believe that if reconciliation takes place in this life God will fully prepare us for it. Above all, know that after this life there will be an eternity of renewed friendships!

Father, You have comforted me today with Your Word and Your presence. I have learned once again to bring hurt and disappointment to You. I renew my commitment to trust You with the end of my story….fragile heart and all. Amen.

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