Unnecessarily Alone

Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work: if one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up! Ecclesiastes 4:9,10 (New International Version)

If I broke my leg, I would have no trouble seeking the help of a doctor. If my car broke down, a mechanic would be the one I turn to. A tooth ache would send me to the dentist. I also have no trouble stopping and asking for directions if I am obviously lost. The help of others is invaluable during these times and many others. We can see that and readily agree. So why is it that we grasp this truth for our physical needs but fail to accept it for emotional or spiritual needs. God never intended for us to be “lone ranger” Christians.

Throughout Scripture we read phrases such as: pray for one another, encourage one another, comfort one another, strengthen one another, help one another, love one another, give to one another, fellowship with one another, admonish one another, esteem one another, praise one another, build up one another, forgive one another, and so on. We also see the many times God used people as instruments for healing, leading, instructing, and teaching. They are not a replacement for God but they are definitely a gift from God.

While God desires for me to have an intimate, personal walk with Him, He has never failed to bring significant people into my life to assist me in my growth as a Christian. I have a list of precious individuals whom God wove into my life at just the right times. I would not be who I am today without them. I have sought their advice, received their nurturing, and been helped tremendously by them. I treasure each one!

With that said, I find there are still times I think I have to make it on my own through the valleys, mine fields, and rugged places of this journey. In order to safe guard myself from becoming dependent on another person or appearing to be needy, I decide to go it alone. I remember a time when I began to wade through some internal issues. I surmised that with God, my Bible, and a “how to” book, I could do this. Six chapters into my book, I was over whelmed and fully aware of my need for help! Getting that help required prayer, honesty, and transparency on my part. People are willing to help if I will just take a step forward and ask them. As I take the steps and ask, God graciously works out the details.

Father, You never meant for me to be a loner. You have already gifted and equipped individuals to help me and for me to help others. Continue showing me Your truth and Your way. Amen.

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